"you accept the love you think you deserve."
& i accept none.
not only because i know i don’t deserve it.
but also because i don’t need it.
i never really understood the quote,
"let love set you free"
cause it doesn’t make sense.
love changes you, it constantly forces you to make compromises with your significant other, you have to give up certain things, you have to pick up certain habits, you have to learn to accept things you don’t agree too, you have to be patient when you don’t want too & etc etc etc.
don’t get me wrong, when you truly love someone, it’s definitely worth it, because with all those loses, you also gain a lot too.
but love doesn’t set you free.
heartbreak sets you free.
maybe not just heartbreak itself, but being single or being on your own does.
you get to figure yourself out, you do whatever you want, whenever you want. you do things because its what YOU truly want to do.
you don’t constantly have someone else’s opinion affecting your judgements.
and i think more people should take advantage of that, of that time, that you have for yourself.
better yourself, and make yourself happy.
learn to realize & accept that you are fine without someone else.
because, you are.
for the longest time all i wanted was
"to love & be loved"
all that time i was thinking of loving someone else,
& someone loving me.
truly deeply madly.
but i’ve realized , in this life,
self - love is the most important love.
love yourself, set yourself free,
do whatever the fuck you want.
it’s the best thing ever.
life is short,
enjoy every single part & side of it.